I never would have tried with partners, because I was too much of a jealous monster. Its not a message in a little text bubble completely disconnected from the sender. We live on different continents, but inevitably, a few times a year, we find each other somewhere in the world, have a few days of romance, and then go our separate ways. I was curious to know if Malcolm felt the same way I did about all of this, so last week (for strictly journalistic purposes I paid him a visit. Its like my morals were thrown out the window, and I felt this gross egotistical sense that I should come first, because Ive been around longer, like, Girlfriends come and go, but Im forever.
Stop calling him/contacting him, listen. Sometimes it feels like we are more honest with our friends with benefits than we are with our partners. You might know him as Derrick from your Chemistry class, or Josh the hockey player, or even the nerdy guy from the South you thought was going to be nice. Its not encumbered by obligations, which just lead to resentment. Im pushing 30, my friend Brady, a serial single-serving dater explained.
You should come over and spend the night and then come to Dans with me on Sunday. So now Im upfront with hookups that I enjoy hanging with; Yes Id like to fuck you, yes Id also like to cook dinner and argue about.